WhatsApp Chat: Wall
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Do I feel better now? No. I don’t. I feel sad and used and betrayed. I opened myself up to someone and, in turn, got played. It isn’t a good feeling at all.
Someone on twitter asked me if I’d rather have had no interaction than bad interaction. I’m not sure which is worse. It’s nice to think you’re making a connection with someone, but when you find out it was a lie, you feel like shit.
Will I forget about this experience? Probably.
Will I feel better soon? Yes.
Will I learn from it? Definitely.
Most valuable lesson: stay away from men on Craig’s List!
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I’m traveling again with a singles’ group – it is called Amazing Journeys, and I want to give them a proper shout out. They aren’t paying me to mention them and they won’t know I am until I send them a link to this blog post. But this will be my third trip with AJ. Coincidentally, they’ve all been cruises, though AJ does many land trips as well. I think I stick with the cruises because they are more affordable for me, but what I like about traveling with them is that they’re organized, fun, and Jewish. Yes, it’s a Jewish singles group. See, you all know this, but I’m Jewish and although I’m not a religious person, I like to date Jewish guys, so traveling with Jewish singles makes sense to me.
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Him: hahah they must be pretty hard up to hire you for that
Me: Either that, or I’m just so full of wisdom
Him: so u must get some all the time based on u being an expert
Me: I suppose I could if I wanted to.
Him: lol how modest
Me: It’s not terribly difficult for a woman to find a willing man. But of course most of us want more than that.
Him: what do u want?
Me: I have no clue
Him: and where is your blog? i bet u want plenty of sex and bunghole talk
Me: Not from someone I don’t know.
Him: hey. i never said from me
Me: much rather have someone ask me how my day was than want to talk dirty
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And if anyone has a problem with this, then, (pardon my French), fuck him! Seriously, I lead a very fulfilling life and will only invite a man in if he is going to make my life better. And if he thinks a relationship via text or over a donut is better…well….then he needs to find a girl who has lower standards.
Listen, my point is this – there is no reason to lower my standards or aim for loser just because I’m 39. Or plus sized. Or single. I do not want to be a statistic.
