As the relationship goes on, she will beckon you towards the edge. (I’m imagining a ghost floating in the air off the edge, motioning for you to join her haha) .Necessity will beckon you towards the edge. The edge represents true relationship happiness, the balance of dominance/aloofness (the ground) and emotional connection (the void). You can’t build true bonds with your woman if you are hanging back all the time. Thus, you will be forced to creep ever so slowly to it’s edge.

In keeping with the cliff analogy, where you should stand respective of the cliff’s edge is largely based on where she is floating. If she is aloof, floating off distantly while beckoning you to the edge, the trap is to chase her, to try to get closer to her. Oops, you fell off the cliff. Donezo.

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So yeah, less is more. Tying into deti’s point as well- As long as women will have checklists miles long, and a penchant for men who could give a shit about their checklists and prefer to generate raw attraction instead, being the person who withholds more will always win out. The best way to balance The Cliff is to get the fuck away from it, at least for the initial stages of the relationship.

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Very good stuff.

“The Cliff” is an excellent description. As is the advice of hanging back off the edge as far as feasible.

It is always better to lose a girl by withholding too much emotionally and being maybe a little bit more of a dick than is required, than to lose a girl by being needy or supplicating.

Oftentimes, the girls that withdrew because you were a dick can be salvaged. Some nice words, show you do actually care a little, boom, you’re back in while maintaining hand.

A girl you beta’d out on- No. Tingles once lost are almost always impossible to regenerate. Few levels of preselection or reputation can reverse it. Been there, tried that.

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Whatever the situation of the guy, women nowadays come out of the factory with the entitlement in place. entitlement to only the top creme de la creme of the guys. No matter if a woman is average, or even below average, she feels entitled to the top dogs.
Women, almost always have been the sexual selectors, the exceptions were when the top few percent of men were able to select due to their huge social status.
Last time I checked, women NEVER had any problem finding a man to support them. (given their standards are not too high, and there are no bastards in tow, and even then this holds)
A world that women are used to and STILL inundated with?
LadyRaine, what world of scarcity are you talking about?
How many women are used to being successful with men just by being "a nice girl"?
today's woman is truly far away from even remotely "nice"...
and if the ladies are not outvaluing themselves out of the market, and looking at their own level, there are droves of men ready to marry any girl.